Saturday, January 10, 2009

Q: Can you recommend a position for hard and fast sex?

Q: I am looking for a solution to a problem regarding sexual intercourse. My husband and I have been married for four years. We have a good sex life, but he recently told me that there is something missing--the freedom to enjoy hard fast sex. Due to my small size and a tilted uterus, my cervix is lower than it is in most women and when we have hard and fast sex and he hits my cervix, it hurts like hell, so he has to hold back. We've tried varying my height, tried doggie style, tried all sorts of positions but it still hurts. Can you recommend one?

A: I have the same problem as you. Hard and fast vaginal sex hurts, can even make me bleed. Darn that cervix anyway! Through experimentation and exploration, I found a way to enjoy hard and fast sex -- anally. It requires care and consideration and preparation, but on your knees, with a vibrator between your thighs and generous lubrication (I prefer cocoa butter creme for anal) it is possible not only to enjoy anal sex, and to enjoy hard and fast anal sex, but to have simultaneous clitoral and anal orgasms, which, believe me, are deliriously intense.

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